Summer Rhythm

Ahhh... sweet summer rhythms! Here are some highlights of our summer rhythm that went something like: fishing, playing at the beach, hanging out with good friends, eating good food and sleeping well!

Sam's first catch of the summer!

One of many trips to Millennium Park beach.

That's a good tired.

Sam and Braylen pushing the wagon to the beach.

Freshly picked corn from our garden. Mmmmm good!

Seriously, are there any cuter 3 year olds on the planet?! (Julia & Sam)



Letha, Kath and Sam on a boat ride with friends in Canada.

Sam caught this one entirely by himself (including the cast).

Blast Off!

Kath and I got away for our 13th anniversary!

Stay tuned for a newborn baby-filled picture post coming very soon...

Big Boy Weekend

This past weekend Sam ran his first Junior Jog at the Brian Diemer Race. Kath ran the 5k for the 19th time (this year she was 23 weeks pregnant!).

Brian Diemer was getting the 3 year old boys ready to run and asked if they were fast. He held the microphone up to Sam and Sam said loudly and clearly "I am going to beat you!" That's our boy! Brian had fun with it and made sure that Sam did indeed beat him.

Sam is off to beat Brian!

Kath and Sam after the race. Sam is sporting his gold medal and Kath is sporting the latest member of our family.
Sam has been working hard over the last few weeks earning his "Big Boy Bike." Sunday marked the big day of putting it together and riding it for the first time.

Happy Birthday Sammers!

Wow!! Sam is turning 3! Kath has asked Sam several times to just stay 3 after this birthday. We love the stage Sam is at right now. He is learning so much and he is just funny... well, most of the time. I thought his birthday would be a good reason to catch up on some photos of our family trip to Seattle, WA this past October. Sam on the plane to Seattle, WA in October.
Sam ditching the backpack to hike on his own at Twin Falls.

Aw, yes! Is there anything better for Sam than having Letha read him books?
Sam, painting at the Seattle Children's Museum, is focused!
Sam and Kath picking out the best places to throw rocks at the base of Mt. Rainier.
Duane, Sam, Letha and Kath at the base of Mt. Rainier experiencing an afternoon like a piece of heaven.

My God is so Big!

Grieving, Hope & Healing... yeah not a light post!

I have let life's busyness get the best of me and have completely neglected this blog. That's a bummer because a lot has happened. I hope to get back to some picture updates soon but this post will be a break from the norm and is about the process of mourning a loss.

Recently our sister-in-law lost her 36 year old sister to cancer. As Kath and I have been going through this with them, it has brought back a lot of reflections and feelings from losing our daughter Abby. I remember desperately needing friends and family to go through it with us. I also remember (for me anyway) some well intentioned words of encouragement that simply didn't help. Often the pull for many Christians going through a loss is to focus on the fact that their loved one is in a better place now... Heaven. While this is true and a beautiful thing, I realized that what I really needed at that time was to fully grieve the loss.... and then I could move towards hope. Oddly enough the most comforting moments I had were in the tears and embraces with very few words spoken. Our Pastor came to the hospital shortly after Abby passed away and spent hours with us and he said very little. He embraced us, cried with us and sat in silence with us.... for a while... and it wasn't awkward, it was God's presence... and it was very close.

Music also played a part in mourning Abby's loss. I found myself again being most comforted in a song that was sad and dealt with loss, but didn't wrap it up nicely at the end. The song stays in the moment... it stays sad... it cries out... and fully embraces the pain of loss. I think some very profound healing comes when we let go of the need to wrap up a time of grieving with a nice bow, but rather sit in the sorrow. "The sorrow grows bigger when the sorrow's denied" is a quote from one of my favorite songs that has helped me grieve in a healthier way.

Hope is crucial to healing, but I think hope can be better and more authentic when sorrow is fully engaged without being rushed into "everything is OK".... when it is not OK. My hope for this post is to encourage Lyndz & Brian (and others going through loss) to allow yourselves to fully feel the pain and sorrow of your loss.... so that you can experience God's close embrace because in that close embrace is where healing and hope comes.

Abby's Birthday

On Monday we celebrated Abby's 4th birthday. What would our lives be like with a 4 year old girlie girl running around?! Oh, how we wish she were here!

We rode our bikes to the cemetery to bring a balloon and found Grandma's roses there. Later we went to the beach for some fun in the water...

Of course we had cake on Monday too! Sam helped decorate the pink frosting with sprinkles.

People have asked us, "Is it easier as time goes by?" No, it will never be "easy," but how we feel is different each year as we look forward to celebrating Abby's birthday. When we hear stories from you such as, "I remember Abby each time I wear my pink scarf," or "when a butterfly flits past I think of Abby..." we are so thankful that it's not just us who misses her. We think of her everyday and wonder what adventures we would be having with her and Sam.
Happy Birthday Abby...from Mommy, Daddy & Sam

First Camping...

Aw-yes camping with the Herzogies... is always a highlight for our summer. This year we camped at Muskegon State park.

We went on a couple of letterboxing adventures that Leslie looked up for us. We were successful on finding one of them. For more info on letterboxing... check out it out here. http://www.letterboxing.org/

Julia's potty training didn't stop just because we were camping. Sam decided to pull up a chair and well, we're not quite sure why he pulled up his chair to watch.

Sammer's is growing up too fast.

On Monday it rained... and rained some more. So we all went into our tent and made the best of it!

Now that's a morning of letterboxing and playing hard. The little ones were wiped out!

Sam checking out his first catch!

Sam & Julia absolutely loved riding their bikes around our campsite and just being crazy together.

The crew from the top. Jeremy, Julia, Gabby & Sam.

Thanks again Herzogies for another fun camping trip!

Catching Up

Seriously... more than 2 months since the last update?!! OK, we have some serious catching up to do! So no more screwing around. This may take you a few days to go through, but hang on and let's catch up together.

Let's start with Sam's cousin Nathan at his birthday party with the Vander Meulen family. Kath found this shirt for him and couldn't resist with Uncle Jim (Nathan's Dad) being a policeman and all.

All the of the cousins put on their hard hats and tool belts and got to work.

5 days after Kath went through radioactive iodine treatment for thyroid cancer she made it outside at home to continue her healing process. I wanted to post this picture because it was sunny and in the 70's and she had 3 layers of clothes plus a warm blanket to stay warm.

Immediately after Kath's doctor appointment when we found out she is cancer free (whoohoo!) we picked Sam up (after not seeing him for a whole week) and went to a Relay for Life event in Wyoming that a couple of Kath's coworkers were involved with.

It was an amazing evening - Kath walked the first lap with fellow cancer survivors (she being a survivor for literally just hours). We met some people with incredible stories. Here Kath, LTB and Sam are walking a lap together.

Don't really need to add words to this picture!

What better way to continue the road to recovery than to work on getting the garden ready.

On Kath's birthday we were all playing in the backyard at Grandma & Grandpa's house when we noticed Sam was no where to be found. Kath found him sitting on this rock hiding from everyone.

The above and below pictures are from one of the weekly hikes Sam and I take on Sunday morning. Except this time he hiked on his own 2 feet, no more riding in the back pack!

Sam rode in the tractor behind Grandpa for almost the entire time he cut the grass. It didn't matter that grass was whipping in his face, he was riding behind Grandpa in his tractor... It just doesn't get any better!

Our sweet outside-loving, adventurous boy has found a new hobby. He loves his new couch and has become quite a couch potato. Thanks Aunt Kathy!

Kath's mom, Kath and our sister-in-law Missy posing before running the Brian Diemer 5k. Kath has ran this race 18 of the 19 years of its existence. She was in Japan the one year she missed it. After nearly no training at all this spring and serious lack of energy due to no thyroid, this one was definitely mind over matter. And if you know Kath, you would expect nothing less than to hear that she ran the whole way. Well done!

After the race we all enjoyed the parade in Cutlerville before sending Mommio and our friend Letha off to Seattle for a few days.

We will end our time of catching up with Sam playing with the hose at our house. We are getting ready to go camping with the Herzog family soon, so we shall catch up again later.